TESTIMONIALS

I came in thinking I just needed a better focus. What I actually needed was to stop living in fragments. The work wasn’t therapy. And it was not ‘coaching hype'... I left sessions calmer, sharper and honestly less reactive with everyone around me. My decision making got clean again.

I ’m used to managing risk, words and so on. In my world you don’t get to be uncertain out loud. With Lyubov, I could finally speak without managing the room. What surprised me most was how quickly the noise dropped, because she read what was actually happening and didn’t let me hide behind competence.

My marriage also improved, because I stopped performing my role at home. 

Honestly, I didn’t want to "talk about feelings". I wanted to stop losing my patience and stop feeling like I was on guard all the time. The way she works is disciplined...you don’t spiral, you don’t get coddled, you get honest:) I’m more stable now. A better leader, a better father. Less control and more authority. That’s the difference. Thanks!

I was living two lives and calling it ‘normal’. Public me was polished. Private me was anxious, compulsive and tired. I kept waiting for it to blow up. Lyubov didn’t judge me, didn’t moralize, didn’t try to rescue me. She helped me stop lying to myself in small ways and then bigger ways. I feel like I can breathe again. It’s not dramatic. It’s just steady.

This I’ve met a lot of experts. She’s not doing a performance. She listens like she can hear what you’re not saying. That can be uncomfortable at first. But it’s exactly why I trusted her. I came in with a lifetime of habits: shut down, push through, don’t need anything. I’m still me. I’m just not as hard.

So happy that I found someone who really helped me understand so many things. I didn’t grow up around this kind of support. In my world, you handle things. You don’t talk about what’s happening inside, you just work harder. And I was working hard, but I was also quietly anxious all the time, especially in relationships. I would get controlling, then feel guilty, then act like I didn’t care.

With Lyubov, I didn’t feel judged or analyzed. It felt like being seen clearly (the good parts and the messy parts ) without being shamed for it. She helped me understand the real pattern underneath my confidence: why validation mattered so much, why silence made me panic, why I tried to manage people when I felt uncertain.

The biggest change is I don’t chase proof anymore. I still want big things, but I’m not desperate for them. I can be close to someone without gripping. I finally feel like my ambition is coming from alignment and not fear. I am very grateful.

...being a doctor I know what stress does. I counsel people on it. And somehow I still thought I could outwork my own nervous system. I wasn’t falling apart, I was just operating on fumes. Short fuse, low patience, zero space in my head.

What I respected immediately is that she didn’t treat me like a diagnosis or a project. No ‘let’s unpack your childhood’ detour. She listened, then went straight to the pattern: where I was over-functioning, where I was controlling to avoid feeling exposed, where I was numbing to stay effective.

A few sessions in, my wife said, “You’re back”! That hit me. I wasn’t louder or more emotional, I was simply more present. I stopped carrying the day like it was a weight strapped to my ribs. I still work hard. I just don’t collapse internally to do it. Thank you!

I came because my performance was fine but my head wasn’t. I was doing everything right and still felt tight, restless and weirdly angry. The smallest things would get under my skin. I’d be ‘locked in’ but not peaceful.

This work taught me something I didn’t expect: I wasn’t lacking discipline. I had too much armor. Lyubov helped me separate authority from tension. Big difference! When I’m grounded - I’m faster mentally, I recover better, I don’t chase control in my relationships and I don’t need drama to feel alive.

It’s hard to explain, but it feels like I got my "center back". Not motivation, center (!). That changes how you compete and how you live. Truly appreciate the work.

I’ve negotiated deals my whole life. I can read people, I can handle pressure, I can stay calm in a room. But at home? Different game. I was either distant or overly involved and I didn’t know how I got there. I just called it ‘my personality.’

Working with Lyubov was like having someone turn the lights on without embarrassing you. She didn’t treat me like an old man trying to ‘work on himself.’ She treated me like a man with a lifetime of habits some useful, some costly. She helped me see how I used control as a substitute for security and how silence became my default language.

I’m retired now and that transition can mess with your identity more than people admit. This work gave me something better than advice: it gave me a clean way to be with myself and with the people I love. I’m less defensive. I ask for what I want without pushing. And my relationships feel simpler like I don’t have to manage them anymore.

Burnout hit me hard and I was wiped out all the time.

Barely sleeping, body always tight with stress, snapping at people way too easily. I could still run meetings, make decisions, lead the team… but there was zero recovery. My tank was empty. I’ve done therapy before and it was helpful in its own way, but this felt completely different. No heavy past-life digging, no forced positivity quotes. Just a safe, private space where Lybov really listened and helped me spot what was actually draining me: that endless need to control everything, never let anything slip, never actually pause to breathe.

After only a few sessions my head started to quiet down. I wasn’t flying off the handle at little things anymore. Sleep actually started working again. Decisions felt lighter, less overwhelming. My family started saying things like “You seem more relaxed lately” before I even brought it up. Nothing about who I am changed. It just cleared the crap out of the way so I could actually be me again.